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                                                    Life’s Seasons Change
 
As life’s seasons change, so changes our priorities, interests, energies and goals, often leaving us a bit bewildered, wondering if that particular season is really over and if it is, what are we to do about the one that lies ahead?
 
                     “He Holds My Hand
             New Gospel Music Single CD
 
A recent accomplishment I treasure, occurred with the completion of my latest CD,  “He Holds My Hand.” 
 
The words were given to me by the Master of all music as I walked along a dirt road this Summer- and a butterfly hovered closely. Butterflies serve as my reminder of our daughter, taken in a tragic accident a few years ago. And as I watched the fragile butterfly, whose life by nature, would also be short lived, I reflected on the endless love and grace God poured over my life in the months that followed and the many times He held my hand when I was so frail I truly could not stand.
 
It was in those moments, the words and music to the chorus came as clearly as if God was writing them on my heart - and they have never been altered. The words are as amazing as His grace and love -and I continue to be overwhelmed each time I hear or see them, realizing He chose to give them to me that Summer Day.
 
With only the words on a sheet of paper and the melody in my heart, I arrived at the recording studio. Within a matter of days, Jim Holbrook, Northwind Recording Studio, transformed those words into an amazing arrangement complete with great instrumentals and his perfect background harmony. 
 
When I heard the final cut for the first time, I was speechless and simply wept. It was an incredible tribute and testimony of God’s unparalleled love and grace – set to music that will surely make the angels sing!
 
Dedication
 
This song is dedicated to my family. You know best, the roads I travel and how, “He Holds My Hand.” You fill my life with love and laughter each and every day. You are the air I breathe. You are my life.
 
My prayer is for you to always have a personal relationship with this great God and take comfort knowing his love and grace are unlimited and even though we stray, He never walks away.
 
Special Thanks
 
To my best friend, Linda Panchula for taking this journey with me, listening to the many versions, encouraging me and crying with me when we heard the final cut. Also, for designing the CD covers and labels. My life would be totally, “Vanilla,” without your creative touch to all my projects!
 
CDs are available.
 
Ms. Senior Michigan 2008-Update
 
The distinction of holding the title of Ms. Senior Michigan 2008 and competing in the Ms. Senior America Pageant is truly a cherished milestone. 
 
Since retiring my crown and sash, except for special Queen Events, I have remained involved with the Ms. Senior Michigan Pageant as a volunteer, coordinating a Queens Committee and assisting the Pageant Director. How long this season of my life will last is uncertain, but clearly, it too will pass.
 
 

The Muttsy Mission Season Comes To A Close

 

After fourteen years and placing more than 2500 Muttsys in the arms and laps of those with Alzheimer’s, The Muttsy Mission for Alzheimer’s is closing.

 

We have visited hundreds of nursing homes in multiple states, passing out Muttsys (wonderfully soft cuddly dogs made by Gund) that often reminded them of their beloved pets in years past.

 

Countless letters from family members expressed their appreciation for the Muttsys for their loved ones and often indicated they had sent Muttsy on with them, because Muttsy had brought so much comfort to them while they were here.

 

This journey has been a very rewarding experience and I am sad to see it end, however; everything has a season and the season for the Muttsy Mission has passed.

 
 
                            "THERE IS LIFE AFTER THE CROWN IS PUT AWAY!"
 

  "My Moment in Time"

When I was crowned
MS. SENIOR MICHIGAN 2008
 

Happy New Year 2011

 

The crown and sash leave their coveted shelf in the curios cabinet less frequent than in the days following the crowning, however; I continue to be involved in the Pageant, leading the Queens’ Committee, appointed by the board, serving as a liasion between the board and the queens and  cameo club members.

 

We are preparing for a number of exciting events leading up to the Pageant in July, including two benefits: "The Patsy Cline," show in March and the, "Queen For A Day Show," in April, which will be held in the theatre at OPC in Rochester. 

 

The Pageant will be held in July, also at OPC in Rochester and we are looking for contestants to compete in this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.  If you would like information on the Pageant, please connect with me via email, phone, Facebook or text and I will gladly go over all the details with you.  You will absolutely love being part of this special event.

 

Complete details about the shows and the, "2011 Ms. Senior Michigan Pageant,"  will be posted within the next week, so check back.

 

May your New Year bring you more peace and love than you could ever imagine.

 

Would love to hear from you through any of the methods mentioned above.   I can’t believe I have become part of this wild and crazy cyberspace phenomonen.  I am not very proficient with it, in fact I am borderline, technically challenged, but I love connecting with all my family and friends - and especially my grand babies and great grandbabies on Skype.  I would never have believed it, considering I remember saying to my secretary-some 20 plus years ago, "Email?  What in the world do I want Email for?"  

 

Keep in touch any way you choose.

 

Much Love,

Fran

 

 

 

 

Crowning the New Queen -2009

 

A month has passed since I found myself in another unforgettable moment when our daughter, Caryn was called to the stage to present me with my beautiful farewell roses.

 

 

 

 

 

 

As I took my final walk as Ms. Senior Michigan 2008, I was overwhelmed with emotion, thinking briefly of the moment just one year earlier when I took my very first walk across that same stage, putting into motion one of the most incredible chapters in my life’s book. 

 

Soon the announcement came we had all been waiting for; who had been chosen to be the new Queen?   Within moments, my reign came to a close and I joined the prestigious roster of, “Past Queens,” as I crowned,  Caren Maceyko, Ms. Senior Michigan 2009. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

She is a beautiful Queen, inside and out and her presentation was breath taking.  I am so proud to be her Sister Queen for the next year and I’m sure she will bring the kind of elegance to the Ms. Senior Michigan Pageant that is the cornerstone of the Pageant’s Philosophy.

 

May this year bring exceptional and unexpected joy and happiness to you Caren, for no one deserves it more.   You have bravely faced extraordinary challenges in recent times and I hope the rewards of this exciting year will bless you in ways you never could have imagined.

 

There will be more news about the Pageant, The Queens’ Committee which I chair and upcoming Queens Shows, but for the moment, my crown, my sash (and my high heels) are taking a much needed rest from an amazing journey.

 

 

 

 

 

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July 17, 2009

 

 

In just a few short days I will give my Farewell Speech, do my final, “Queen’s Walk,” and then midst the anticipation and the coronation song, the Pageant Director will announce the winner of the Ms. Senior Michigan 2009 Pageant.  And just as the applause and excitement erupts, I will place the crown on the new Queen.  Yet in spite of all the unleashed excitement , my heart will become quiet as my mind briefly revisits that same incredible moment when I was crowned exactly one year ago.  It was a moment I will remember forever!

 

I thought perhaps you might like to read my Farewell Speech since many of you were unable to attend the Pageant this year because the tickets were all sold out – well in advance –so I decided to share it with you here.

 

“ I’m thinking I probably should have written something out for this important Farewell Speech,  but I think when I was little and learned to talk,

the whole reading and writing thing was somehow overlooked, so I’ve spent most of my life just talking.

 

What an amazing, unforgettable year!

 

There were some moments that stood out from all the rest that I want to share with you, but first I want to thank a few people who made this year all that it was.

 

I can’t possibly thank everyone I would like to and if I tried, for sure I would miss some, but I do want to thank The Ms. Senior Michigan Board of directors for sponsoring my trip to the finals in Atlantic City and their support throughout the year.  Thank you very much.

 

I especially want to thank Virginia Kohler and Shirley Stedman, Past Queens for showing me how to be a Queen.  They taught me how to walk and talk at the Pageant  and they are truly elegant Queens.  You’re the best Virginia and Shirley and when I grow up I want to be just like you!

 

Our awesome Pageant Director, Francine, not only for her encouragement and support during the pageant but also at the finals –and throughout the entire year. She has always been there for me 100%.

I love you Francine and I’m so proud to be your friend!

 

My dear daughter, Caryn, for driving me to Atlantic City,

Pampering me 24/7 the entire week, making sure I had my lip gloss on,

fixing the holes in my hair, keeping me on time and never leaving my side.

I was the only item on your agenda for a whole week and I loved every minute of it! Thank you honey!!

 

 

Now if I can share just a couple of my most memorable Queen Moments:

 

            One day I was at a restaurant with my crown and sash on waiting for my little grand daughter to arrive.  As always whenever there are children (especially little princesses) I stop and talk to them and often let them try on my crown and of course they love that.

 

            Well, I had finished talking to some little girls and their mom at a table near the door where I was waiting, and all of a sudden the little boy at the table leaned over and quietly said to me, “Is there a King?”

 

Naturally I told him, “Of course there is a King.  He is about 6’2” and

and his name is, “Terry,” and he takes really good care of me and he said, “Oh, OK.”

 

            Just a couple of months ago I paid a “Queenly” visit to my grandson’s school.  Andrew is in the first grade, so his teacher had all the little kids sitting in a circle and had a rocking chair reserved for me up in front.  She told Andrew he could introduce me, so he came up, sat on my lap and proudly announced:

 

“This is my Grandma.  She is Miss America.  She won a beauty contest and I rode in a parade in a Saturn with her and handed out candy.”

Then he went over and got a chair, brought it right over beside my rocker and proceeded to try to answer not only every question I  asked his classmates to engage them in the conversation –but the ones they wanted to ask me.  This was his moment to shine and he was shining.

 

So I’m thinking I’ve been going by the wrong title this entire year.

            What do you think?

 

And even though Francine said my reign is about over –and in just a few minutes we will indeed have a new Ms. Senior Michigan 2009, I want you to know that’s not entirely true because I have some proof that my reign in fact will “never” be over…

 

(Mary…can you please bring me the sign.)

 

            This was prepared for me last year –

            Also by Prince Andrew who proclaimed me Miss America

            So I have to believe he has his facts straight!

 

            “You are always be my Queen.”

            “You are a star in my eye!”

 

So, my reign will not end – I will indeed be a Queen forever.

 

In closing, I have chosen a song I wrote and recorded in memory of our daughter who was taken much too soon –four years ago.   I want to dedicate these special final moments to her.  And for those of you who have lost someone special in your life –I dedicate this song especially to you.

 

The song is entitled, Perfect Rest.”

 

With that, my final performance as the “Current Ms. Senior Michigan,” will end and I will take my final walk and then moments later I will place the crown on the new Ms. Senior Michigan 2009.

 

However, my role with the Ms. Senior Michigan Pageant will not end there as I will be the new Queen’s Sister throughout her reign, coming alongside her, mentoring her and assisting her in preparing for the Ms. Senior America Pageant and other events and activities.

 

In addition, I will be leading, The Queen’s Committee, a committee established by the Board to lend support to new queens and promote the pageant throughout the year.

 

Those of you who know me will clearly not be surprised that I have found a way to stay involved with this project.  It’s simply in my DNA to do what I can to support the organizations I have become a part of. 

 

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April 16, 2009 

 
Well as you might imagine, much has happened since that special day back in July;
 
Parades, appearances, performances, congratulations and best of all, so many hugs I could never count them all! From hearing Seniors –and Non-Seniors-cheer as they read the, “Ms. Senior Michigan,” sign on the car to the adoring looks and big smiles of so many little, “Princesses,” who wore my crown for a few moments and asked to have their pictures taken with me, it has been an amazing experience and I will remember it forever!
 
And…..there is more to come!
 
April 22 –Wednesday – Davison Senior Center – 1:00 PM
 
I am hosting an amazing afternoon show featuring a special performance by Linda Piccoli who has been entertaining audiences throughout Michigan for over 20 years. She takes us from the highs of Patsy Cline and Liza Minnelli  to the sordid lives of Judy Garland and Billie Holiday. She also remembers the passionate war songs that kept us all together yet belts out Jazz and Broadway like there is no tomorrow.
 
In addition I will be sharing some information about my recent experience with the Pageant in the hopes of encouraging a few Davison Women to enter the upcoming Pageant in July.
 
June 3 – Wednesday – OPC (Older Persons Commission)
Downtown Rochester -1:00 PM
 
There will be a very special, “Queen For A Day,” show featuring myself and several past queens in providing an afternoon of great entertainment along with honoring the women who come.  There will be prizes, refreshments, laughs and some very unexpected surprises.      
 

 

There will also be an opportunity for everyone to visit with the Queens up close and personal and  see a mini version of the Pageant –in hopes of encouraging a few women to enter the upcoming Pageant in July. 
 

I will spend a few minutes talking about the Muttsy Mission for Alzheimer’s-and even sing a few of my favorite Country Gospel Selections as part of the show. 
 
Come on down!! It will be fun for sure!!
 
July 21 – Tuesday – The Ms. Senior Michigan Pageant for 2009
 
For information on the Pageant and becoming a contestant,  please give me a call on my cell at 248-709-7596 or email me at franmaiers@aol.com.    The “MI Pageant” page also has my story of the Pageant last year which will give you a fairly good understanding of what the Pageant is like. We would love to have you consider entering this exciting competition designed to promote the Age of Elegance – which we all cherish.